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Tuesday, May 18, 2010

True Criminals of a Dying Art.

Many of you won't believe this... I had the opportunity to take a fine, young lady out on a date.
yes mother I went on a date. Are you proud?
For those of you who are confused when I use the word date. Date: a social appointment, engagement, or occasion arranged beforehand with another person...Although at times it may seem like a true four letter word.
As one should on a date I was prompt on picking her up and as we headed towards my car I gladly opened her door for her. I continued this all night, opening doors, standing as she entered/departed the room and what not. By the end of the night I walked her to her door, thanked her for the fine evening and gave her a hug. She said to me "You a such a gentleman, thank you." Although my chivalry didn't earn me more than a kiss on the cheek it was a victory nonetheless.

I have heard many women repeat this worn line "Chivalry is dying art." Chivalry - the sum of the sum of the ideal qualification of a Knight, including courtesy, generosity and valor. So it is my job today to play Sherlock and find out the true criminals of such a crime. bias set aside of course. Many will jump the gun and automatically blame the men. Please don't.
Men do play a very large role in this crime, but not all of us. To those few gentlemen left in the world fighting the endless battle of dying chivalry I thank you. To those dudes who are either too good to show courtesy or think they are just above the law, piss off.
This is where girls become in my opinion the bigger culprit. Time and time again I have listened to girls complain to me that their, now ex boyfriend was such a jerk. Ladies... When your dude texts you to ask you out, that alone should be a sign that he is no good. If the pretty girl in this world keep falling... and falling quite hard I might add for these self proclaimed studs, chivalry will die. It's hard to compete with the competition when you have to downgrade to do it. Let your man call you to ask you out... or even just to ask you how your day was. Don't text. Does he not have time in between working out and making a protein shake? Or is he too busy trying to make that next alarm sale? Let him be a man and call you. You are gorgeous, you deserve it.
We have all seen this, a gorgeous woman with a not so good looking fellow. You wanna know what that is? That is a very smart girl who gave chivalry a chance to play it's role. She fell for a real gentleman, a genuine prince charming.
We are all culprits in this wicked battle. So men... pick up the slack. And ladies...

Next time you think you are falling for prince charming, make sure he is a gentleman.


As Always,
Right Field Hero.

7 comments:

  1. Very valorous my friend. i appreciate this blog as much as the next chivalrous knight and stand as a testimony that good looking girls that give it a go around end up with pretty nice dudes. those girls that complain about always dating losers, as you mentioned earlier right field hero, its because they stoop to their level and go out with them. i will join you in your cause.

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  2. So true phe, so true. Us girls really do need to pick up our acts. Because every girl wants her prince charming, not some douche bag. We gotta give the underdog a chance.

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  3. I completely agree. Esp about the not texting. The second a boy texts me to ask me to "hang out" I will only ever see him as a friend. And to add to that the whole, "Would you want to hang out sometime?" bit is crap. Do you want to be my friend and "hang out" or do you want to take me on a nice date?? MANNNN!

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  4. i have, for a while now, believed that we, as women bring the jerks on ourselves. having found my very own prince charming, and he is quite handsome if i do say so myself, after a long battle of dating jerks, losers and men who don't know how to talk to a girl, i finally realized that by opening my own door, accepting dates through text and having far too many purely Textual Relationships, i was bringing it on myself. and let me tell you, i learned my lesson, and i only hope more ladies learn it too! good post Phe! i'm so proud!

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  5. haha, i love that your mother must bother you about dates (yes mother I went on a date. Are you proud?), it makes me feel good to know i'm not the only one lectured too. i also agree!! I feel that it is a mixed gender thing too-- some fellas are 'too cool' to show good character, and some girlies think that its outdated (seriously, some think its odd that men can act awesome). Anyways, glorious, thank you for the post

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  6. Phenome you are awesome! I'm glad that I caught one of those chivalrous men. But I do have to admit I sometimes fall into that category of girls you talked about, Brennen got on me the other day for opening the door at church when he was right behind me. He said "letting the guy open the door for you is part of being a lady". You are going to make one lucky girl very, very happy Phe! Miss your face!

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  7. Yucklllleees!! Well done, in following this practice great results are generated and you quickly weed out those that aren't up to snuff. ie Jenny and Ashley.

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